Free You Closet and The Rest will Follow

Sharon, 45, is a single woman living in a charming town near Boston.

Sharon wanted to organize her wardrobe. During our initial phone call, she confessed that she finds it really hard to let go of items, both in her closet and in her home in general. She understands that she needs to start practicing letting go. She chuckled and said, "Maybe if I can manage to let go of items in my wardrobe, I'll be able to let go of people I've needed to release for a long time."

I replied to Sharon that I completely believe in the energy connection between letting go of physical items and releasing people from our lives, and suggested we schedule a session.

She showed me a video so I could get a sense of the size of her closet and the amount of items we needed to sort through, allowing me to estimate the scope of work.

We scheduled two sessions, each lasting three hours. In each session, we focused on a different section of the closet. We sorted through shoes, coats, dresses—step by step, we went through everything, including bras, underwear, and more. We agreed that after each session, I would take the donation bags with me, ensuring that Sharon wouldn't go through the items again and second-guess her decisions.

The sessions weren't easy for Sharon. She struggled with letting go, and each time she touched an item, it brought back memories of when she wore it and how she felt.

I assured her that once we finished organizing her wardrobe, she would have so much physical and mental space for new things.

The very next morning after our second session, Sharon wrote to me:

"Good morning, Tali. This morning, I woke up feeling that the energy around me was different. When I went into my closet to choose clothes for the workday, wow, the air in the room felt so much lighter. It was such a pleasure to see everything neatly organized, and I had so much fun picking out items I didn't even remember I had in my wardrobe."

Three months passed.

 One morning, Sharon wrote to me:

"Good morning, Tali. I've been meaning to write to you for weeks, but I just didn't have the chance. Tali, a month after our last session, things started to change for me. I ended an unhealthy relationship and began attending social events. I met new, amazing women, and together we started going on trips and creating shared experiences. I feel so much less lonely, and it's incredible. I don't want to jinx it, but I have to share that I even met an amazing woman, and we've been in a romantic relationship for a month now."

Clothes carry energy, both in your wardrobe and when you wear them. Once you recognize their power and approach them not just as clothes, everything opens up for you.

So, when are you ready to organize your closet and release what no longer serves you?